She is here!
Maise Alice Schnelle
Born November 16, 2011 @ 2:41 am
8lbs, 1oz
20 inches long
And boy did she ever make an entrance.
She was due on November 18th, but since I had gestational diabetes, the doctor felt that we should induce a few days early. At my check-up on Monday, I was starting to show signs of problems with the placenta due to sporadic blood sugars. One minute I would have high blood sugars for no good reason, and the next crash very low which could mean that the placenta is about to give out. So it was decided to check into the hospital that very night. We figured we would have a baby sometime Tuesday.
At the hospital, they gave me medication to help my cervix soften. I began to have minor contractions right away which made for a pretty sleepless night. All of us figured that once they began the Pitocin in the morning, I would progress pretty fast.
Fast forward to noon on Tuesday and I didn't have much change. My cervix had softened but not dilated at all and baby had not dropped into the birth canal. So we waited....
and waited....
and waited.
Finally, our mom's went home to take care of Mia.
At 6pm, things changed. My water broke and contractions began coming fast and hard. After what seemed like an eternity, the doctor came in to check and I had dilated to a 5 so we ordered the epidural and expected to have a baby within a couple of hours.
I have a love/hate relationship with epidurals. Boy to I love them, but boy, do I hate getting them.
8pm comes and goes. 9pm, 10pm. Nothing. Then the baby begins to get distressed. Her heart rate began to go up and down and she still hadn't dropped into birthing position. The doctor began to worry that the placenta was indeed finally breaking down. And, at this point, after no food and no sleep for almost 36 hours, I was beginning to worry if I had it in me to even do my part. Finally, around 1:30am the doctor checked my progress and confirmed something was wrong with the baby's position and she was starting to go into distress.
"c-section STAT!"
That is when things started to fly. Within 15 minutes, I was in the operating room. Exhausted and hungry, both Gabe and I struggled to hold on. Gabe with worry and wooziness, me with staying awake and not going into a panic attack. But soon enough, we heard the tiny cries of a baby. Finally!
But gestational diabetes reared its ugly head again. Going so long without food, Maise's blood sugar had dropped dangerously low and she was whisked off to the NICU (neo-natal intensive care unit) where she would stay for two days.
It is such a strange feeling to be recovering from child birth with no baby to hold. I began to think about the moms who give their babies up for adoption or have some other reason they can't be with their babies. What a horrible feeling.
Once I was able to sober up and walk around, they wheeled me into the NICU to hold my sweet baby.
Finally, on Thursday evening she was released from the NICU in good health and able to stay with us.
Now we are home. Happy and healthy. I continue to recover but it is a slow process due to a problem with my incision, but I am confident it will happen soon. In the meantime, we are very happy to have our mothers here with us. Both have been a tremendous help! We are both a little nervous for them to leave!
Mia has taken to Maise very well and has been a proud, loving and helpful big sister!
This Thanksgiving is truly a special one with so much to be thankful for. We hope you all have a Happy Thanksgiving!